If you are a control freak like me, you are probably going to have a nervous breakdown at some point leading up to your wedding. You are going to have no control over the interpersonal interactions that will happen at your wedding; make a conscious decision to let go. The day before my wedding, I lost it. It was mainly because my mother-in-law said something about how my mother should have done something, and I understood that I would not be able to be the social buffer that I usually am at family gatherings. All these people would be in one place, and I would have no control over what happened. My mother had to sit me down and tell me very firmly that people would look after themselves, and I had to let go or I would have a horrible time.
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